Meet Our Therapists
Providing therapy in-person in Richmond and online throughout the state of Virginia

— Frederick Buechne
Dr Waller Thompson, LPC, SEP
Co-Founder
No one gets through this life without overwhelm, and even trauma at some point, yet few of us have the necessary resources and skills to navigate these rough waters without support, help, or guidance at some point.
I have made it my life’s work to hone these skills and become knowledgeable in how to support people through times like these. I was lucky enough to have several amazing guides along the way and this is one small way that I express my gratitude in the world for those times when I felt so lost and needed heartful and mindful companionship.
I began my career as a school psychologist serving the very young (0-7) and their families. I discovered how much I enjoyed providing therapy, so I went on to get my doctorate in counseling and eventually started my own private practice. However, I never strayed far from education. I’ve taught at the college graduate and undergraduate levels, worked as a consultant in schools, started a Waldorf School, and also taught parent-toddler classes. These days I mostly do psychotherapy with adults, but hold a special place in my heart and room in my practice for young children, babies and their parents, as well.
I am honored to walk beside so many brave souls who have made the decision to turn and face their demons, be it trauma, self-judgment, or failed relationships, and then support them in their journey towards health and healing. I have been on this path myself, have done the hard work of change, and literally felt the transformative changes that happen when I befriended both my mind and body.
I was the veteran of many years of talk therapy which was helpful in patching me back together and allowing me to function pretty well in the world. I knew, however, something was missing but didn’t understand that I needed to invite my body, my nervous system, into the conversation.
I came to understand that healing takes place in the here and now, so I needed to do my personal work in the present moment. That was when the real healing began for me. I understood a lot before and I was very successful in my life, but I didn’t feel it on the inside. I know many of these roads as I have traveled there myself and so I am honored to serve as your guide.
Professional Experience and Education:
License: LPC Virginia 0701010596
Graduate School: College of William and Mary
Doctorate (Ed.D.) in Counseling (1998); M.Ed. (1988) and Ed.S. (1990) in School Psychology
Other Training/Certifications: Somatic Experiencing Practitioner; Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapist (BCST); Brainspotting Provider (BSP); Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) Provider; Transforming the Experienced-Based Brain (TEB) Provider; Inner Relationship Focusing (IRF) Provider; Extra Lesson Practitioner; NeuroAffective Touch (NAT) and Neuroaffective Relational Therapy (NARM) current studies; Postpartum Mood and Anxiety Disorder (PMADS) Certificate, Pre- and Perinatal Educator Certificate.
Elizabeth Holt, LPC-S, SEP
Co-Founder
Most of the individuals who seek my help have had talk therapy in the past and are seeking a more body/mind approach. While traditional talk therapy has been helpful, they may have reached a standstill or are circling without change.
Many have complex and developmental trauma histories and may be going through a stressful time. Many have histories of some anxiety or depression and may have recently experienced a loss and find they need support.
I also work with younger individuals who may be seeking support facing a life decision or transition period.
Another specialty I enjoy working with is those in recovery from either a substance abuse disorder or an eating disorder. I have extensive experience working with substance use disorders and dual diagnosis and have experience and understanding of recovery.
Many seek my help for Somatic-based therapy as I am a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. This may be to work through a specific stressful event such as an accident or surgery or maybe more complex with more numerous events and /or relational traumas.
I am very honored to have had the privilege to do the work I do and welcome the opportunity to continue this deep and sacred relationship with others.
I have always been attracted to non-traditional approaches. I began my graduate work in Art Psychotherapy and continue to hold this as important to my professional identity.
I know we are designed to heal and grow. I believe in the wisdom of the body’s natural organismic process toward healing and health. I take much that I believe from what I see, from shat I have learned from nature. There is a natural life force in us all, but it can become thwarted and stunted.
I integrate a combination of dialogue, collaboration, movement, expressive arts, and at times touch. I use both a “Bottom-Up” (body) approach and a “Top-Down” (mind) approach for embodied integration in our work together.
Professional Experience and Education:
License: LPC Virginia 0701002411
Graduate School: Eastern Virginia Medical School
Other Training/Certifications: Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP); Board Certified Art Therapist ATR-BC; Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR); Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP); Somatic Resiliency and Regulation (SRR); Transforming the Experience-Based Brain (TEB); Transforming Touch
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty”
— Maya Angelou
About Paralee:
I am thrilled to be part of the relaxed, inclusive environment of HeartMind Resiliency, with the incredible opportunity of personal mentoring with Dr. Waller Thompson, LPC, SEP and Elizabeth Holt, LPC-S, SEP —recognized and highly respected experts in trauma and attachment theory. Together, they have created a space of intuition, courage, and profound healing.
In my down-time, I love hiking, exploring nature, adventures, meditating, traveling to distant lands, experiencing food from all kinds of cultures, trying new recipes, learning something new, live music, playing the piano, ballroom dancing and listening to waves on a beach.
“Your illness is not your identity. Your chemistry is not your character.” Rick Warren, pastor and author.
Paralee Bushman, MA-CMHC
PSYCHOTHERAPIST & RESIDENT IN COUNSELING (VIRGINIA)
LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR & LICENSED MASSAGE THERAPIST (IDAHO)
True joy comes from a place of wholeness. We can tell when we don’t feel whole, and when we don’t feel we belong to ourselves.
Our bodies hold truth. Our brain, nervous system, and chemical messengers—like neurotransmitters and hormones—shape our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. They regulate mood, motivation, and our sensitivity to pleasure or pain. When we experience stress, especially prolonged or extreme stress, the nervous system—a brilliant survival mechanism—can store those experiences in ways that feel stuck or unprocessed. You might find yourself thinking, “I shouldn’t feel this way,” or reacting in ways that don’t make sense, yet the anxiety, anger, depression, shame, or grief persists. These feelings are not obstacles to fight or ignore—they are messengers, offering clues and invitations to heal, integrate, and reclaim your authentic self.
My role is to walk alongside you, creating a safe space where healing can unfold naturally. We are wired for healing and drawn to wholeness. When given the right resources, our body, spirit, and emotions know how to mend. My approach begins with supporting you in stabilizing your current situation, then gently reprocessing past experiences that contribute to present struggles, and finally integrating this work into a future where you feel empowered and whole—not just managing symptoms, but addressing their roots.
Clients
I often attract clients navigating life transitions—those moments of questioning and shifting that unearth insecurities or unresolved influences. Whether it’s a move, a new child, empty nest, divorce, menopause, a career change, loss, or a new diagnosis, these times can reveal what truly matters to you. These are opportunities to follow the clues, uncover your deepest values, and confidently weave them into your relationships, responses, and daily habits.
I specialize in complex trauma, helping individuals untangle the effects of fight, flight, freeze, or dissociation while fostering a renewed capacity to handle life’s challenges with comfort and fulfillment. Simply put, I help you feel comfortable in your body and in your life. My integrative approach combines humanistic, gestalt-inspired principles with experiential, body-focused, and mindfulness-based practices.
Credentials and Trainings, Areas of interest
Drawing from my three-year Somatic Experiencing training (pursuing full SEP certification) and intermediate EMDR training (en route to EMDRIA certification), I address the nervous system directly, supporting clients as they move beyond survival strategies into thriving. I am also trained in polyvagal theory, attachment, and somatic mindfulness, enriching my ability to help you heal not just from the past, but in your present and future life.
I earned my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Idaho State University in 2022, but my path to therapy began years earlier as a clinical massage therapist (LMT). Witnessing the interplay of physical and emotional pain, I sought deep training in historical and cultural healing modalities—rituals and bodywork that honor the whole person, their family, and their community. This foundation fuels my passion for the relationship between the body, trauma, and health, including issues like medical trauma, chronic illness, anxiety, depression, addiction, and emotional dysregulation.
— Detective Josephus Miller, The Expanse, Season 2, Episode 5: Home
Erin Dabrowski, M.Ed
PSYCHOTHERAPIST & RESIDENT IN COUNSELING
After over a decade of experience as a School Counselor and in-home Family Systems Counselor, I am excited to have entered private practice where I am completing licensure requirements for my LPC in Virginia. I graduated from Virginia Commonwealth University in 2012 with a Masters in Counselor Education, and consider myself a life-long learner always adding to my skills and expertise.
If you are struggling with a traumatic past or new changes in your life, or you feel stuck and find yourself looping in old patterns, I can support your unique needs by integrating a number of therapeutic modalities. In addition to my ongoing apprenticeship in HeartMind Resiliency’s Somatic Resiliency Model, I have certificates in Somatopia’s Core Skills Trauma training, Deb Dana’s Polyvagal informed therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. I also incorporate experiential practices such as movement, breath practices, Havening, art, mindfulness techniques and traditional talk therapy skills, such as cognitive and solution-focused modalities. This combination of approaches allows us to go beyond the story, words and thoughts to support your nervous system to recalibrate and repattern.
I especially love working with people who are going through transitional times and the difficulties of change. Often this comes from the hauntings of past traumas or current life moving too fast and too big. My work is to help you find space to slow down to find the safety within so that you can explore your life from different perspectives and discover new ways of being that perhaps you didn’t know were possible. I’m here to guide you to explore family dynamics, identity questions, and social issues.
I am both LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent affirming and have a special interest in supporting young adults through the challenging and exciting years of launching into their lives. As a former school counselor, I am also a skilled advocate for adolescents, parents and families who are navigating the complexities of community and school services.
I strive to always be genuine and create an atmosphere where clients can feel comfortable and quickly at ease. My clients often tell me that they appreciate my sense of humor and my ability to be down-to-earth and practical. I believe that laughter is essential to healing, and I strive to create an environment where my clients feel safe enough to laugh, even in the midst of difficult emotions. By working together in a trusting, supportive relationship, we can navigate life’s challenges with greater ease.
I understand what a big step it is to reach out to a therapist and I’m happy to support you in taking this brave step. During sessions, we will focus on building a support network and discovering strengths and personal insights while practicing autonomy and self-advocacy skills.
When I’m not counseling, I am keeping up with my vegetable garden, spending time with my family, and seeing live comedy and music. I also love brunch, the Buffalo Bills, and being a part of the local theater community.
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
— Mary Oliver
Molly Blemker, M.S.
PSYCHOTHERAPIST & RESIDENT IN COUNSELING
No matter the many waves or challenges life may bring, I strive to offer a safe and affirming space where you can feel seen and heard. My work is rooted in the belief that our bodies hold profound wisdom and that healing comes from understanding and integrating all aspects of ourselves. Together, we will uncover the underlying patterns that may be holding you back and develop empowering strategies to cultivate resilience and growth.
Licenses and Other Credentials
- Masters of Science in Mental Health and Rehabilitation Counseling (Virginia Commonwealth University)
- Bachelor of Science in Psychology and Religious Studies (Virginia Commonwealth University)
- Reiki Level 2 Practitioner
I am committed to the path of lifelong learning and am pursuing ongoing Somatic Trauma Therapy training, as well HMR’s Integrative Trauma Apprenticeship and weekly supervision.
Areas of Interest…
- Trauma
- Anxiety
- Substance Use and Addiction
- Identity Exploration
- Nervous System Regulation
- Spirituality
- LGBTQ+ Issues
- Relational Conflict
- Life Transition
WHO I work with…
- Young Adults
- Adults
WHAT Therapeutic modalities I use…
I utilize an integrative and somatically informed approach, weaving together elements of :
- Mindfulness
- Parts Work (Internal Family Systems)
- Polyvagal Theory
- Experiential Modalities
WHY I am a Therapist and WHY I like what I do?
I believe in everyone’s capacity to heal and meet all the parts of ourselves with greater compassion and curiosity. There is no greater honor than getting to support clients in returning home to themselves to live more present, authentic, and embodied lives. I feel forever inspired by the sacredness of this work.
What are you excited about and want to learn more about?
I have a special connection to Internal Family Systems (IFS) and am excited to continue learning the depth of such work. Additionally, I feel deeply called to alternative/complementary healing modalities and strive to integrate various disciplines to best support our worth together.
Favorite books or podcasts?
Books: Women Who Run With Wolves, The Celestine Prophecy, No Bad Parts, The Scent Keeper
Podcasts: We Can Do Hard Things, Sounds of SAND, Unlocking Us
Individuals and Teachers who have influenced my work....
Prentis Hemphill, Hillary McBride, Richard Schwartz, Adrienne Marie Brown, Elizabeth Gilbert, Resmaa Menakem (too many to name!)
What do you like to do for fun and self-care?
I enjoy spending time in nature, seeing live music, and traveling the world. I also love yoga, hiking, and snuggling with my cat.
Rae Filla, RYT
Trauma Sensitive Yoga and Breathwork Guide
My practice is inspired by the art of passionate embodiment. As an instructor, I lead clients inward to discover the buried aliveness that lives beyond pain and resistance. I intend to help my clients live life as their authentic selves. My classes utilize Breathwork and Trauma Informed Yoga modalities to help clients feel safe and present in their bodies. Everything is optional. Everything is your choice. Only you can know what is best for your body, and I strive to remind clients to own that truth. In my experience, it is from a deep sense of inner safety that real magic flows into life. Feeling safe in mind, body, and spirit allows us to navigate through our pain and align with the strength of knowing ourselves. What we feel, we can heal, and it is my honor to guide others upon the journey towards their deepest self expression.
Current certifications:
- Trauma Informed Yoga Teacher- 200 hours
- Certified Breathwork Guide
- Bachelors in Social Work with a Minor in Sociology
- Rae also receives ongoing supervision and training at HeartMind Resiliency in trauma-sensitive and resiliency-informed care
- Currently pursuing Somatic Experiencing Practitioner training (Completed Beginner 1)
- Exploring the Vagus System - Touch Work training
Joan Advent, MSW
Transformational Empowerment Coach
- Life purpose
- Relationships
- Personal Empowerment
- Your Legacy/Business
- Clinical Social Work
- Child and Family Counseling
- Substance Use Issues and the Family
- Codependency and overcoming Self Betrayal
- Trauma and Recovery
- Experiential Treatment
- Inter Generational Healing
- Leadership Development
- Spiritual Development
- Psychic Development
- Money/Prosperity Healing
- Personal Empowerment
- Your True Essence
- Your Inner Wisdom
- Your Untapped Resources
- The Underlying Patterns keeping you stuck
Professional Experience and Training:
Masters of Social Work Virginia Commonwealth University 1992; Certified Sophia Circle Leader; WomanSpeak Circle Leader; Pathwork Helper (Retired); Sacred Money Archetype Coach; The Art of Money; Transforming Trauma into Soul Power; EMDR I and II; Exploring the Vagus System I, II, III and Supervision; Past Life Regression; Psychic Development Training I and II; Zapchen Somatics; Core Energetics; The Layers of the Heart; Continuum; The Secret Intelligence of Water; Intentional Creativity; Writing Raw; and Vocal Odyssey: Meeting the Spirit of Your Voice.\Ebook Author: The Radiance Equation: A Visionary’s Guide to Coming Out of Hiding, Owning Your Wisdom and Creating Your Greatest Impact
Podcast Host and Creator: Trust Your Sacred Feminine Flow
– Ram Dass
Areas of Interest…
- Trauma
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Identity
- Members of Marginalized Communities
- Life Transitions
- Grief
Lisa Zulawski, LCSW
Licenses and Other Credentials
- Licensed Master Social Worker (New York)
- Licensed Clinical Social Worker (New York)
- Licensed Clinical Social Worker (Virginia)
- Masters in Social Work (University of Denver)
- Bachelor of Science (Ithaca College) in Cinema and Photography and Minor in Writing
- Certification in EMDR Therapist pending completion 2023
- Yoga Teaching Certification (RYT200)
- Certificate in Animal Assisted Social Work
- Conversational Spanish and Basic French
WHO I work with…
- Young Adults
- Adults
WHAT Therapeutic modalities I use…
- EMDR
- Somatic Modalities
- EMDR Natural Processing Level Two
- Mindfulness
- Yoga Teaching Certification (RYT200)
- Person Centered & Relational
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
WHY I am a Therapist and WHY I like what I do?
What are you excited about and want to learn more about?
What do I do for fun and self-care when I’m not at work?
When I am not working as a therapist, I am typically out walking my dog, getting excited about trying new foods, planning and going on long distance hiking trips and listening to NPR.